"I am 34 and have ADHD + Anxiety + Hyperventilation syndrome and as a teenager extreme ODD & substance abuse. I was a lifelong textbook for most traits and behaviours, teachers didn’t like me, drinking/sex 13, reckless driving, criminal behaviour, average/low academic achievement, extremely poor maths, difficulty with friendships, alcoholic at 20, then drugs, victim of domestic violence and so on.
I was diagnosed in my twenty’s with ADHD and started medication thinking I would be fixed. I wasn’t!! Methylphenidate just allowed me to slow down and think straight but I had to learn how to plan, organise, stop and think, self discipline etc.
But today I can sit (not completely still) and read, I have a university degree and a high paying job where I am recognised for my organisation skills (GO FIGURE) and I’m literally making all my childhood dreams come true. For me consistent routine is crucial. Sleep, exercise (at least 30mins day) to become present and lose some energy, diet – no sugar, caffeine or high glycaemic carbohydrates, and I must abstain from alcohol and drugs forevermore with the support of narcotics anonymous and I need calm around me, to talk about my feelings, and breathe!
Oh and importantly daily Concerta. When I am good, I’m better than a ‘normy’, but when one of those elements in my routine falls down, literally everything falls apart until my insightful hubby reminds me I have ADHD and I can pull myself back into my disciplined routine again. I constantly forget and so it’s a lifelong journey but I can’t believe who and where I am today."
–CBH North Shore